Posts Tagged ‘phone’

How to Get a Psychic Reading – My Favorite Way to Get Psychic Advice

September 21st, 2011

Who else would love to get a psychic reading, but isn’t sure where to go to get it? Do you need to leave the house, travel hundreds of miles, or wait days, weeks or months to see a reputable, accurate psychic? Do you need to talk to an expensive TV celebrity reader to get REAL psychic information, or real answers you can use?

If you are anything like the 1.5 million people who got a psychic reading by PHONE in 2010, the chances are you probably already know the answer!

The good news is, technology is such these days, that you can literally talk to a world class psychic, clairvoyant, medium or intuitive… without even needing to leave your home.

That said– Here are some SUPER smart tips on selecting a psychic, or a service, and what I’ve personally learned in 20 years of reading, writing and researching psychic readings.

- Always do your due diligence FIRST (but DON’T overdo it).

Read a short list of 3-5 services or psychics that appeal to you, sound good and then just dive in and DO it!

In other words, read some reviews, make sure a psychic service is reputable, has been around a while and isn’t some fly by night operation before you call, or visit. But, don’t over do it either. I’ve seen people spend WEEKS trying to pick the right service to call, and that’s just silly. For 10 or 20 dollars, you can get a great reading, and test a reader’s accuracy LIVE and in real time, and that’s certainly a lot smarter than browsing hundreds of sites to find ONE psychic you think you can trust.

- Avoid psychics who offer services that sound too good to be true.

Especially independent intuitives you’ll see advertised online, or in blogs and forums, that don’t have an organization behind them. Does that mean there aren’t great readers available who work for themselves? Of course not – many ARE, and do! But the fact remains, that most of the psychic “scams” are perpetrated by folks who are NOT what they appear to be, and offer magical solutions to your most pressing problems (and no reputable psychic, or service will ever do that… PERIOD!).

- NEVER commit more money than you can afford to a reading.

As a matter of fact, always take advantage of low cost trial readings whenever possible. One of my favorite readings of all time cost me just about 20 bucks, and one of my WORST cost well over a THOUSAND… and had me travel hundreds of miles from home to get it as well (no joke).

Lastly – always be OUTCOME oriented when you call a psychic. Know what you want to hear, what you want, and the direction you want your life to take before you get on the phone. (or before you sit down with a reader) The truth is, in my experience, the people who have the BEST outcomes from readings are those that are prepared… open, honest and are optimistic! You can do all of those things yourself… and not only will it make your psychic reading far more special, it will help make YOU a happier person to boot!

At the end of the day?

Knowing that your life has purpose, and an underlying reason is a very powerful thing… and a good reading should reinforce that a whole lot more as well!

Library Noise Now The Golden Standard – New Values Corrupt Silence

August 10th, 2011

Sounding Off About Sound

I have spent over twenty years using libraries–as a traditional student, as an independent-study student, and as an individual who constantly pursues knowledge for life-long enrichment. During this period of years, I have witnessed libraries mutate from generally quiet environments to generally noisy environments. Modern-day librarians seem to accept noise as the new standard. I claim that noise is the new threat.

The Reality

I am shocked to observe what appears to be a massive shift in professional attitudes-away from viewing library users as students, to viewing library users as pampered consumers. Much of the noise in today’s libraries, in fact, occurs because of consumer-driven technology such as mobile telephones. Virtually everyone in the developed world possesses the freedom and the finances to buy a mobile telephone. Virtually everyone in the developed world, therefore, seems to think that they have the freedom to use a mobile phone anywhere and anytime they please.

Many mobile phone users have cultivated an exaggerated sense of self entitlement. Furthermore, they have used this exaggerated sense of self entitlement to pressure library leaders into compromising libraries’ traditionally quiet atmospheres. Now that talking on cell phones has gained a hold, talking, in general, has gained a new permissive atmosphere, because subtle boundaries between appropriate talking and inappropriate talking have become confused. Consequently, defining and enforcing standards for talking have become impossible. Any suggestion of not talking can encounter accusations of violating civil rights, which I view as ludicrous.

Library leaders want their institutions and their jobs to survive, so they relax what consumers perceive as rigid standards, in order to keep bodies and dollars coming in. The threat of losing patrons who support professional salaries is apparently too great to ignore.

Consumers want stimulation, satisfaction and entertainment, all within their comfort zones. Librarians, thus, have redefined libraries primarily to meet these lowest-common-denominator needs. The pressure of consumerism, thus, seems to be winning out over the ideal of quiet study.

Teachers No More

Worst of all, the concept of “teacher” seems to be crumbling, also under the pressure of consumerism. There seem to be few true teachers today and very few dedicated students, especially in the age range of adults. Instead, there are primarily consumers of products or services on one hand and primarily salespeople of products and services on the other. In this manic consumer atmosphere, the prime directive is, “The customer is always right” or ”Trust the user.”

If the customer is always right, then there is little meaning to teaching the customer (student) anything better than he or she already knows. Teaching, after all, requires conveying something unfamiliar to a student, who has to endure a growth phase of awkwardness and slight conceptual discomfort. In other words, learning requires discipline, and “discipline” has become a bad word.

Superficial Appearances Belie Deep Flaws

On the surface, a library can look good. It can appear to offer inviting spaces and enriching atmospheres. A library’s mission statement can use all the right words too. On closer examination, though, these spaces and atmospheres can work insidiously against quiet users. If leaders qualify noise as a permissible aspect of acquiring information, then noise makers will operate with little regard for quiet users. Again, I have seen this happen first hand. Even as I write this article, there is a chorus of noises around me-loud talking adults in an adjacent hallway, crying children, even staff people whose duties require talking. » Read more: Library Noise Now The Golden Standard – New Values Corrupt Silence